Mark Driscoll: Revisited. Because Grace. {20/31 Niches}

“You aren’t what’s been done to you but what Jesus has done for you. You aren’t what you do but what Jesus has done. What you do doesn’t determine who you are. Rather, who you are in Christ determines what you do.”

– Mark Driscoll, Who Do You Think You Are? Finding Your True Identity in Christ.

So, you guys. This weekend, while talking about my series with my husband, I realized I missed the point of the whole series a little when writing about Mark Driscoll. I don’t want to only vilify a fellow Christian. I jumped on the badwagon (<—typo that is a little too it must stay) instead of using my voice to fuel peace and grace and mercy. And I'm sorry about that. Because this series is all about grace so I'm here to try again.

As it turns out, I've not read any of his writing…which I didn't realize until I thought about it yesterday…i've only read the angry words attacking him and quoting him on past sins, harsh words, misogyny, and anything else under the sun. It's bad form to criticize someone secondhand..that’s about when it becomes gossip. Ahem.

So I went to the library and I'm reading his most recent book: Who Do You Think You Are?: Finding Your True Identity in Christ. I'm 50 pages in now and have yet to disagree with him. Not what I assumed. Somehow in all the criticisms they failed to mention the fact that this guy knows his Bible. I’m sure I’ll find something I don’t agree with him on before I finish the book, but I think better of him now.

Here are a few quotes thus far that resonated with me:

“You were created by God, are on the earth to image and glorify God, and when you die, if you are in Christ, you will be with God forever, imaging and glorifying him perfectly in a sinless state.”

Concerning the calvinist doctrine of total depravity:
“While it’s true that sin has affected the totality of our persons, including our minds, wills, and emotions, we fail to say all that the Bible does regarding our identity when we llace undue focus on iur depravity as fallen sinners and ignored our dignity as created image bearers and our new identity as redeemed Christian saints, while a non-Christian is totally depraved, a Christian is in Christ. Practically, focusing on just the sin aspect of our identity leads to despairing, navel-gazing Christians obsessed with their sin.”

“The Word of God is not a club for beating Christians until they emotionally bleed as repayment for their sin.”

“For the Christian, there is a vital difference between having sin and being sin. ”

– Mark Driscoll, Who Do You Think You Are?: Finding Your True Identity in Christ.


We need to work on creating lines between what is actually criticism or accountability and what is really just gossip. We all mess up. Some in bigger and bolder and more visible and debateably “worse” ways than others, but God is still working through us and teaching us how to be more like Him. It’s way too easy to gang up on leaders when they fall off the pedestals we made and platforms they built. It’s all too easy to miss what God might be doing through someone else because of our own assumptions about the person’s motives, character, or salvation.

If we can think of fellow Christians’ actions as a more nuanced combination of good and bad, we can stop painting with the sweeping generalizations of “good” and “bad”. As the Church, instead of attacking and condemning and disowning, maybe we should be considering our reactions in the light of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Maybe we need to be a soft place to land after a hard fall from favor.

Do you think God is big enough for that?


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2 thoughts on “Mark Driscoll: Revisited. Because Grace. {20/31 Niches}

  1. I think that most of the ‘bad guys’ in Christianity really do know their Bibles, they can teach three different lessons from one verse and they would all be correct. what makes these guys wolves in sheep’s clothing is not that they don’t look the part of the Christian – they all do. They just don’t act like one. Scripture says ‘by their fruit you shall know them.’ Mark’s fruit is not limited to: He used $200k of the churches money to buy copies of his book so it would be on the best-seller list by paying a company a $25k fee, plagiarism from multiple other authors to fill the content of his books without citing the original works and their authors, He completely reorganized the churches bylaws so that he could not be fired and that he was the presiding member of the elders of his choice that had total authority over – in essence giving him complete control and nobody to be a check or balance, he trolled online forums as William Wallace II using very strong language, these are among of the things that we have learned about – we do not know the things that only God knows. Worst of all – he really hurt people, called people terrible names and was anything but loving. Some people have walked away from Christianity because of they things he did to them and how he used some of them. Sure, he did some good things too, made donations for disaster relief and inspired people – but the fruit he’s known for is mostly bad.

    Can he be restored? That’s between Him and Jesus. It’ll take humility – walking a mile in the shoes of the men and women that he’s hurt, a class in how feminism benefits men and women inside and outside the church, restitution and recognition because of the plagiarism, spending a while at the lowest rung of the ladder to work his way back up not because he’s famous but because He had been a Saul and is in a process of becoming a Paul. But I think there’s call for forgiveness all the way around – and Mark will have to find a way to forgive himself so that everybody who was hurt can forgive him too.


    1. I totally agree, Jamie. He has done some really bad crap that he shouldn’t have gotten away with. That is a lot of bad fruit. And yes, it is between him and God. I’m not trying to defend anything he did, just suggesting that maybe not everything was incredibly bad because God uses us bad people to good things even if the bad is completely interspersed with the good. And like everything that humans do, we have to take it with a grain of salt.

      You can see my last post on mark driscoll if you want a sin focused post :)

      Thank you for your words, Jamie!


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