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  • Darkness {five minute friday}

    December 13, 2019 by

    It’s a season of feelings I don’t really want to record. Sadness. Grief. Confusion. Annoyance. Regret. Anger. Overwhelm. Mixed in with all the usual good contained in our everyday life, grieving my younger sister has been such a confusing process. I’ve found that losing someone leaves a haze over my clarity, a damper on my… Read more

  • Not Unimportant {The Kind Side}

    November 11, 2019 by

    It’s ok to prioritize creative work. It’s ok to tell your kids, “I’m working right now.” It’s ok to assign value even when there’s no job title or pay schedule. It’s ok to quell and mitigate the interruptions with clear communication and careful planning. It’s ok if you are the only one who understands your… Read more

  • Everything Feels a Little Ridiculous {The Kind Side}

    November 4, 2019 by

    Don’t quit because you feel ridiculous. Everything you do will feel a little ridiculous at some point; it doesn’t mean you should quit or even second-guess. Carry on. Stretch your comfort zone. Try a little more than you think you can manage. Step out of ruts and boredom into the realm of the ridiculous. Chances… Read more

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Hi, You! I’m Erika.

My home is wild. I’m sure yours is, too. In the chaos, it’s hard to make sure everyone in the family feels whole and free to be themselves. We’re all on an independent path even as we’re trying to live congruently in a family. Everyone needs, wants, and is passionate about something different. On top of that, the house needs to be somewhat livable, certain levels of learning and growth are expected, and social, cultural and spiritual values are foisted haphazardly and silently.

Raising little people and being a healthy adult in the face of all those conflicting needs and expectations is a wild ride that doesn’t really have rule book.

In this process of making room for all my people and myself to be whole and free, I’m writing. It’s one of the ways I become more whole and free. Musing, muttering, and putting words in a row until I make a little more sense and find a little more freedom for my kiddos, my husband, and me. Writing reminds me to look for the grace, look for the third option, and to keep my eyes open to what God might be doing in the midst of it all, too.

I hope my musings and thoughts are helpful to you too. Here are some of the things I’m learning and sharing about lately:

  • Making space for kids and parents to be whole and themselves – as a group and individually.
  • Saying yes to creativity and optional pursuits while learning to deal with an aggressive inner critic.
  • Helping kids to learn and grow through an unschooling-type approach to learning.
  • Always finding really good books to read – because I can’t help it, I’m obsessed. And a little nerdy.

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