Eyes Fiercely Shut

I wrote much of the body of this post almost a year ago. I just haven't gotten brave enough to post it. But since it is seeming like more and more of the stories I want to tell are hinging on this one - the unravelling of my unswerving acceptance of gender roles and gender … Continue reading Eyes Fiercely Shut

five years this week <3

I used to think that when people fell in love, they just landed where they landed, and they had no choice in the matter afterward. And maybe that's true of beginnings, but it's not true of this, now. I fell in love with him. But I don't just stay with him by default as if … Continue reading five years this week <3