Sometimes I get stuck because I feel like I should have it all figured out by now. I shouldn't be struggling to parent, relate well, write, or focus enough to spend my energy on things that matter to me. I think I should know it all by now. It's been a decade, eight years, seven … Continue reading How to be Whole?
imperfection
When we are imperfectly whole {Whole Together Family 4/31}
I've spent most of my life improving things. I am a One on the enneagram, even though often I wish I was an Eight or aspire to transform into a Five. I am a solid One. I improve, perfect, and rapidly assess situations and figure out what is wrong. I am not a technical perfectionist about as … Continue reading When we are imperfectly whole {Whole Together Family 4/31}
choose a simple start {the kind side}
For when perfection, or just wanting to get it right the first try, is stopping you from trying something: It doesn't have to be perfect. Sometimes it is too easy to skip doing something all together or putting something off indefinitely because you're worried it's not going to be good enough. But just a reminder: … Continue reading choose a simple start {the kind side}
Erika Shirk 